How To Get Your Ex-Boyfriend Back
Ok, it is obvious, because you are reading this article: you have been dumped. Probably you have just emerged from your initial shock and denial and now you decided that you want to have your ex boyfriend back. Yes, I left his socks on the floor, and yes, he is wearing is T-Shirt since the 8th grade, and yes, he is a fast food junky, but nevertheless this guy is still adorable.
Dry your tears. Its time to get busy and get that man back. Follow these steps straight back to Datesville and happy times snuggling on the couch together.
1. Look the part. Remember when you first met? Or your first date? It probably didnt involve sweatpants and yesterdays makeup. Indulge in some self improvement. Confidence is super sexy. No self respecting man will find you desirable if he catches you with tissues stuck up your nose. Hit the salon, the spa or the gym. Get an updated look and give your ex a reason to take a second look.
2. Ok, here we go: Much like a job interview, you will need to sell yourself. So, get your sales pitch together. Sit down and write a lis tof your attributes, by doing this youll be able to make your pitch to your ex-boyfriend on what a great catch you are and why you should be together. Write it the same way as you would write a profile for an online dating site.
3. Be honest with yourself. Why arent you together right now? Did you stray? Did you let yourself get too complacent? Were you a nag? Did he cheat? Did he flip out because hes commitment phobic? You cant possibly make a case for why you need to try to get back together unless you honestly understand why you are apart. Only then can you establish new ground rules, agree to handle things differently or sincerely apologize with any hope of improving on the things that went wrong.
4. Dont try gimmicks. Arranging chance encounters, having him see you on the town having a fabulous time with others or stalking him after his weekly kickboxing class will not work. If this man is worth a second chance, then he deserves better than a lame attempt to fool him in to seeing you again. Call him. Tell him that you have given this much thought and you know that he would want to hear some of your thoughts because they have value for both of you.
5. Say it right. Acknowledge shared responsibility. Realize that compromise is mandatory. Make a plan to reconcile.
Yes, it will require some work on your part and may be even some self improvement, but it is definitely possible to get your ex boyfriend back. Now put away your tissues and start to act