How To Change Your Child’s Attitude
There are several ways to go about helping turn around the attitude in your child. I would like to talk about one way briefly and that is to take control as the parent.
I know that sounds pretty simple but let me tell you that not all parents do this with their children. We need to learn to give specific directions rather than merely requesting things from our kids. We must show our kids that we are indeed the boss and make the rules. I don’t mean in a horrible way. You can do this in a nice way.
Once you sound like you are in control you are definitely on your way to being in control once again. And kids need to know that their parents are in charge. What’s more, if you don’t show the child that you are in charge the kids will often assume leadership for themselves by default, and you don’t want that to happen.
When a child doesn’t do what you ask them to do, you need to say to them, “what are you supposed to be doing?” Then the next thing you need to say is “do it”. This makes sure that the child knows exactly what they should be doing. Then there can be no excuses.
It can be horrible when a child tries to engage in a power struggle about what they should or shouldn’t be doing. But there is a secret in all of this. When you tell them what they should be doing, then you should turn and walk away to disengage with them. You don’t want to give them the opportunity to talk back to you.
If there is no-one there to argue with, chances are there will be no argument. And don’t ever ask your child for an explanation as to why they haven’t done something they should have done. This actually trains our kids to give us excuses for things and we don’t want them to get used to giving excuses. If you don’t ask your child for an excuse it is not likely they they will try to give you one.
So this is one very simple way to turn around your kid’s attitude in less than one week. But always remember, change must start with the parent first, then the kid.
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